If you'll permit me to continue on directly from yesterday, I finished off with self-confidence being a cornerstone of success and being analogous of belief of faith.  To explain a little further before continuing on, Self-confidence is self-belief or faith in one's self.  The reason why it's one of the cornerstones of success is because you can't achieve real success without it.  You can have small events of success, but success as a habit is unachievably without this type of belief.

So many people think that "I'll be happy when I'm in a relationship with this person" or "I'll be abundant when I have this much money" or "I'll have a millionaire mindset when I have a million dollars" or "I'll believe it when I see it" and then wonder why none of their plans come to fruition and why they're so miserable at their lack of success.  They believe "I'll be self-confident when I'm successful" and then wonder why they're not either and how that can possibly be so.  The clue is in every single one of those belief statements.  I'll give you a clue if you want one.

If you look at the structure of every single one of those belief statements it says, "I'll be... when..." or "I'll have... when" or worse "I'll believe it when I see it."  Are you starting to see the problem with why it can't possibly work that way?  Let me put it another way.  Millionaires don't wait until they're millionaires and then cultivate and develop a millionaire mindset.  They become millionaires because they already have that millionaire mindset firmly planted in their heads.  In other words, what they're saying to themselves constantly is "I'll see it when I believe it."  If you want further proof of that statement, read any of the teachers that appeared in The Secret, or you can choose to check out Dr Wayne Dyer, Deepak Chopra, Eckhart Tolle, Dr Robert Anthony, Anthony Robbins, Donald Trump or Robert Kiyosaki, or his wife Kim Kiyosaki.

The whole point is that self-confidence comes from within, not from without.  The whole point is that success comes from within, not from without, it just looks like it comes from that direction because you are using external resources to feed your goal and recruiting external teammembers to assist you.

See you tomorrow.

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    G'day everyone.  I'm an Aussie Life Coach, Clinical Hypnotist (www.americanallianceofhypnotists.org)  and author with a passion for making every relationship in our lives the best it can be.   I work at local, state, national and international levels.  I am also a Callahan Techniques Thought Field Therapy practitioner trained by Eugene Piccinotti TFT - dx, and I studied Neuro Linguistic Programming Master Practitioner Level (MNLP) under Steve G Jones at the American University of Neuro-Linguistic Programming
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